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The Coach Approach, August 2007
Week One: Creation
The theme for August is creation. What do we do
daily that creates our future? Many of you are on vacation and
thinking you’ve created an awesome holiday! Hurray for
you!
"If you want to know your past - look into your present conditions.
If you want to know your future - look into your present actions."
Chinese Proverb
Based on your actions today, what can you predict about your
future? This is an interesting question to contemplate over the
next week.
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Here is a wonderful story from from one of my newsletter
subscribers, on "Reflection":
"I liked your ‘Reflections’ piece
in your newsletter today, especially the bit about the beaver.
It’s so cool when wild animals are curious about us!
"I had the strangest thing happen to me yesterday.
"I had been meaning to change the hummingbird food in our
window-mounted feeder for a few days. I think it goes ‘off’ after
a time, and our local ruby-throated hummingbirds Bubba and Jolene
(they're rednecks...ha ha) haven’t been around much in
the last few days. I was working at home, sitting at the kitchen
table, when I noticed Bubba make a few swoops around the feeder.
Suddenly… PECK! … he rapped his beak on the window!
It was a startlingly loud sound. I thought he had flown into
the window by accident, but he wasn't at all hurt—I watched
him fly over to towards the trees by our fire pit.
"Seeing as I can take a hint, I RIGHT AWAY made some new
nectar and as soon as it cooled I rinsed and refilled the feeder.
I then went to stand in the shade by the fire pit to watch the
feeder for a bit. Bubba swooped in within a minute and then flew
over and perched in the oak tree above my head. He sat there
for a few moments watching me, and then zoomed off.
"I absolutely swear that bird was communicating with me!
"I’m used to all of my animals asking me for what
they want or need. I suppose I shouldn't be surprised when the
wildlife does, too. It certainly made me reflect on how easy
it is to underestimate something that is very small. "
Submitted by Carol.
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Week Two: Recreation & Re-creation
As you are reading this I am away kayaking in the
wilds of Manitoba, with no cell phone coverage therefore no Blackberry
service. Recreation time and re-creation time—creating
some time and space for myself to just be.
It is an awesome experience to paddle into the sunset every
evening. An experience I can draw on for the rest of the year
when there is more schedule/work than hours in a day.
How do you create time and space for yourself to just be? How
do connect with this, re-create the experience when you are feeling
stressed or overwhelmed?
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Week Three: Create Integrity
"If criticism is mistaken or mean-spirited,
rise above it. Maintain the high ground when you're under fire.
No victory is worth winning at the expense of picking up the
mud that has been slung at you and throwing it back." — Rubel
Shelly
It is easy to forget that our actions today create our future
when we feel we are being criticized or treated unfairly. Following
Rubel Shelly’s advise can create a very different future
than the one that often first comes to mind which may be to retaliate.
Focus your attention this week on rising above current unpleasantness
that may be surfacing. Keep your attention on living a life of
integrity and personal high standards.
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Week Four: What Are You
Creating?
As summer draws to an end and you start to organize
your schedules for the fall keep in mind that your actions today
create your future. Do the activities you are scheduling support
the kind of future you want? What are you creating?
“Our future is out there, we just haven’t experienced
it yet.” —Rohit Talwar
What will your future be?
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Week Five: Let the Future
In!
“There comes a time in everyone’s
life when you have to open the door and let the future in.” —Rohit
Talwar
I heard Rohit speak at a conference in Dubai in June. He is
a futurist from the UK and was inspiring, provocative, educational
and entertaining. Visit his website at www.rohittalwar.com and www.fastfutures.com.
What does opening the door and letting the future in mean to
you?
How do your daily activities this week contribute to opening the door and letting
the future in? How do you daily activities this week close the door and shut
out the future?
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